Learn from the Hurt

Whatever hurts you today, only makes you stronger for tomorrow. Learn from the lesson the hurt is trying to teach you.

In every situation there is a lesson to be learned. Take to the time to reflect on what could have been done differently to change the outcome of the situation. Think about what signs were missed, what could have been said, or even which route should have been taken instead. When it comes to "ships" - relation-ships, friend-ships; these people may not intentional set out to hurt you but what occurred during the course that could have eased some of the hurt you are feeling as a result of their actions? Were there any signs that you were too blind to see because you thought that person wouldn't betray you in that manner?

As a result; we cause some of our own hurt but want to blame others. Reflect on our own actions and use them for the future. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. A person who hasn't experienced such strength building will not understand your journey as you will never understand the next person's journey either. Know that everyone's journey isn't the same and their strength just like yours comes from within.