Kill them with Kindness

To BE KIND is MORE important than to be right. More often than not; people don't need a brilliant mind that speaks but a SPECIAL HEART that LISTENS.

Although it is your personal ego that is stroked when it has been confirmed that you are right but remember the other person thought they were also right. In many cases; there is always one person who is wrong; an outward celebration of your defeat isn't necessary.

Be considerate of their feelings and what they may be experiencing from their defeat. Have compassion and sympathy. Be kind to their efforts to accept the reality. If vengeance is desired; then the old saying goes "kill them with kindness". It will baffle them that you have chosen the higher road and are not boasting about your defeat in regards to being right. This will confuse them even more and create concern as to why you aren't acting the way they believe you SHOULD be reacting to your victory.

If your heart is pure and filled with kindness; they will continue to watch you and wonder why. Some people will use this opportunity to either change their attitude or continue to be miserable and want you to suffer like them. Misery loves company but happiness brings peace.

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